The Best Sexual Positions: The Top 5 Mistakes Most Guys Make

by Mary Fetsch

One of the many challenges men have is to decide on what positions to use when getting booty. The biggest fears are that the woman will get bored with the "same old, same old" and as a result lose interest in sex. So the question becomes, what are the best sexual positions?

The best way to explain this is to talk about what NOT to do. With that in mind, I'll now talk about the top five mistakes guys make when it comes to sexual positions, so that way you won't continue making them.

Position Mistake 1: Imitating anything seen in a porn movie. This is probably the biggest reason that guys fail with sexual positions. Inexperienced guys think porn is a good model because they see studs banging beautiful broads, and… well, they just don't know any better. The problem is that sexual positions in those sorts of movies are meant to display a good scene for viewers, not to maximize pleasure for the actors.

And in fact, one of the WORST positions for clitoral and vaginal stimulation is when the woman puts her ankles on your shoulders. With her pelvis bent back that far, she can feel pain in her cervix if you push in too far. Plus it's a position that puts pressure. (If you ever have a chance to go behind the scenes and watch the making of an adult movie, you'll see how quickly the mood gets killed when the actress keeps having to stop the scene to go to the bathroom!)

Position Mistake 2: Trying too hard to keep your weight off the woman, in any position. To a woman, sex is a way to get closer to her man. She loves it when he leans on the underside of her thighs. So here's a tip for you to try... Next time you're having sex with your woman (while you're engaged in actual intercourse, that is), get more of your weight on her. You see, during sex, almost every woman enjoys feeling her man's body pressed hard against her.

So how much weight should you put on her? Make it enough so that after you come, and the sexual frenzy dissipates, your woman will tell you that she feels like she's being smooshed. Of course, do this within limits! If you're on top off her grinding her pubic bone for too long, it can feel painful for her.

But the bottom line is that many, many women like to be pressured by at least some of the man's weight. So save the gentlemanly sex for the royal family's women!

Position Mistake 3: Letting the woman do all the work when she's on top. For virtually every woman, sex is mostly a passive activity. So by being the motionless beta male, you destroy the whole purpose of sex for her, which is to open herself up to you penetrating into her body.

Position Mistake 4: Being a wimp. A lot of guys have read too many "Men are From Mars"-type books and think women like it if you ask permission for everything and let them take the lead. Be the alpha male instead and just "do it." Flip her over, move her here and there. Be aggressive and even toss her about like a rag doll when you want to change positions, and... she'll LOVE it! And don't worry about it. If something is going on that the woman doesn't like, she'll let you know.

Position Mistake 5: Thinking the trickier positions are better. You don't need to be upside down, hanging from a lamp, and doing something crazy. Just be normal. An old standby like the missionary (man on top, woman lying on her back) can be the best sexual position.

Tricky positions are just frustrating for everybody and often kill the mood because there's too much "where should I put my arm?"... and not enough "let's just have fun exploring."

John Alexander is author of How to Be Her Best Lover Ever, a groundbreaking sex guide for men that will make you so good in bed that your woman will beg you for more. Find out more about the best sexual positions by visiting http://www.HerBestLover.com

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12 Days of Sexmas (for him)

On the 1st day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;a blow-job in the morning.
On the 2nd day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;two titty sucks,and a blow-job in the morning.
On the 3rd day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;three back rubs,two titty sucks,and a blow-job in the morning.
On the 4th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;four lap dances,three back rubs,two titty sucks,and a blow-job in the morning.
On the 5th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;Five Naked Pics,four lap dances,three back rubs,two titty sucks,and a blow-job in the morning.
On the 6th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;six steaks a-sizzling,Five Naked Pics,four lap dances,three back rubs,two titty sucks,and a blow-job in the morning.
On the 7th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;seven strippers stripping,six steaks a-sizzling,Five Naked Pics,four lap dances,three back rubs,two titty sucks,and a blow-job in the morning.
On the 8th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;eight Texts a-Teasing,seven strippers stripping,six steaks a-sizzling,Five Naked Pics,four lap dances,three back rubs,two titty sucks,and a blow-job in the morning.
On the 9th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;nine porn's a-playing,eight Texts a-Teasing,seven strippers stripping,six steaks a-sizzling,Five Naked Pics,four lap dances,three back rubs,two titty sucks,and a blow-job in the morning.
On the 10th day of Sexmas,ten strokes a-strumming,nine porn's a-playing,eight Texts a-Teasing,seven strippers stripping,six steaks a-sizzling,Five Naked Pics,four lap dances,three back rubs,two titty sucks,and a blow-job in the morning.
On the 11th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;eleven hummers humming,ten strokes a-strumming,nine porn's a-playing,eight Texts a-Teasing,seven strippers stripping,six steaks a-sizzling,Five Naked Pics,four lap dances,three back rubs,two titty sucks,and a blow-job in the morning.
On the 12th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;twelve orgasms throbbing,eleven hummers humming,ten strokes a-strumming,nine porn's a-playing,eight Texts a-Teasing,seven strippers stripping,six steaks a-sizzling,Five Naked Pics,four lap dances,three back rubs,two titty sucks,and a blow-job in the morning.

12 Days of Sexmas (for her)

On the 1st day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;a spanking over his knee.
On the 2nd day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 3rd day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 4th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 5th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 6th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 7th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 8th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 9th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 10th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;ten fingers fingering,nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 11th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;eleven hummers humming,ten fingers fingering,nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 12th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me,twelve orgasms throbbing,eleven hummers humming,ten fingers fingering,nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.

On the 1st day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;a spanking over his knee.
On the 2nd day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 3rd day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 4th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 5th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 6th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 7th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 8th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 9th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 10th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;ten fingers fingering,nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 11th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;eleven hummers humming,ten fingers fingering,nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 12th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me,twelve orgasms throbbing,eleven hummers humming,ten fingers fingering,nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.





by Mary Fetsch

The Ultimate Sex Position

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Use of Kamasutra to Improve Your Sex Life

Whether it's a mind-blowing, bed-rattling orgasm you're after or a supersensory, soulful lovemaking session, our collection of steamy illustrations and step-by-step instructions has been tweaked and tailored by sex experts to help you reach your peak every single time. Climb on top of your mate and take control with these sizzling strategies and sex positions.

This week we will be discussing and showing positions that give men deep penetration and maximum pleasure. I have also will be giving help and advice to our employees and using some of the points on her website sexinfo101.com in doing this.

Let's begin on talking about how men can obtain deeper penetration. Deep penetration can be very passionate and exciting for both men and women as it can provide entirely new sensations and higher levels of pleasure. As well as being very satisfying and rewarding, it can also provide a sense of being deeply connected with each other, both physically and emotionally.

Men have a natural urge to thrust as deeply as possible into the vagina when they ejaculate and many regard this as the best part of intercourse. Although most women prefer a more shallow penetration, many will allow their man to penetrate them deeply when they are exceptionally aroused, even if it hurts for a few seconds.

But for those who want to experiment, there are certain sexual positions that allow men to penetrate the vagina as deeply as possible and even stimulate the cervix. Women vary in how much they are aroused by cervical stimulation, but some find it very exciting and pleasurable.

Deep penetration can also be enjoyable for women who have a sensitive G Spot as it will help to stimulate the area and make it easier to reach orgasm. To do this, its best to use deep thrusting rear entry sexual positions that allow the penis to vigorously stimulate the G Spot.

Its a good idea to play around with different sexual positions until you find the best angle that suits your mood and provides maximum pleasure. By making small adjustments to the angle of penetration its possible to change the sensation entirely, which is why its important to keep experimenting.

Spoons

This position is the most comfortable to use for deep penetration and it gives the man easy access to be able to enter the woman from behind. As well as being able to slowly and rhythmically penetrate her deeply, the man can also use his hand to touch and caress the woman's breasts and clitoris for added stimulation.

Spread Eagle

This position can be used to stimulate the G Spot while thrusting deeply into the vagina. While the woman lies face down and spreads her legs, the man can enter her from behind. For deeper penetration, a pillow can be placed under the woman's hips to slightly raise her bottom off the bed.

Deep Missionary

This position is a variation of the missionary position where the woman needs to raise her legs and rest her calves on the man's shoulders. The further the woman raises her legs, the deeper the man will be able to penetrate her. The man can also lean forward and push her legs down for the deepest possible penetration.

Furniture

This position requires a sturdy piece of furniture such as a table or bed so that the woman can sit or lay on it near the edge and be level with the man's waist when he is standing or kneeling. While holding the woman's legs apart, the man can vigorously thrust in and out for deeper penetration.

Not all women will enjoy deep penetration, but those that do will find it most enjoyable when they are fully aroused and lubricated so its essential to use lots of foreplay and other sexual positions first. This will reduce the risk of any pain and friction that some women may feel during deep penetration.

by Mary Fetsch of Trimet