5 Ways to Make a Connection

by Mary Fetsch

Being able to quickly establish a deep bond with a woman is an ability that most guys lack. Often guys speak in a logical manner, not listening to the woman and turning every conversation back to their one and only talking point: themselves! This makes it hard to make proper connections and the woman does not feel as though she has had a great conversation.

Here is what you need to do to overcome this:

1. Relate things to them, not just to you or your life:
When somebody tells you that they have just had an interesting experience, like going to Thailand for example, it is a common mistake to instantly relate it back to yourself with your personal experiences of Thailand. Instead, try to imagine their experience, bringing out their memories and showing an interest in their unforgettable holiday. Don't immediately make yourself the subject of the conversation, first connect for a while allowing the woman to elaborate on her experience and then it is fine to relate it to yourself.

2. Use what they give you:
When someone is talking to you they usually give you information about themselves: their feelings and their lives. These are perfect opportunities for foundations of connections. Often people ignore these and talk about themselves; instead, grasp every opportunity and connect on each point before moving on to the next.

3. Be Observant:
Women have usually put a lot of effort into their appearance and often, to their dismay, this goes unnoticed. By picking up on something interesting in the way they're dressed or a particular aspect of their outfit (their bag might match their shoes, belt, earrings and dress), they will be impressed with how observant you are and be glad that their effort hasn't been overlooked. You can pick up on general aspects of their appearance or comment on jewelery and accessories which often have meaning or a story behind them.

4. Be empathetic:
When someone has an interest, passion or particularly strong opinion on a subject, there are three main ways of connecting to it. The first is to simply say "me too" that shows you have common interests, the second is to disagree (but be sure to back up your views). The third and most effective response is to show that you can understand her passion, interest or view - even if you don't share it. For example, if someone likes cooking you can show that you understand why she might enjoy it without actually sharing her passion.

5. Talk about things that evoke feeling:
Find something that they are passionate about - it could be anything from friends and family, to travel or even ballet. Connect with them on these subjects by showing that you understand why they have that particular passion. Don't simply gloss over them by saying "me too" and instantly changing the subject. Try to keep the conversation going and lead on to ask about her other interests.

Use these steps during conversation and you will quickly form a connection within hours, as opposed to weeks.

This editorial was written for sexinfo101.com by Mary Fetsch.

12 Days of Sexmas (for her)

On the 1st day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;a spanking over his knee.
On the 2nd day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 3rd day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 4th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 5th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 6th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 7th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 8th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 9th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 10th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;ten fingers fingering,nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 11th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;eleven hummers humming,ten fingers fingering,nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 12th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me,twelve orgasms throbbing,eleven hummers humming,ten fingers fingering,nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.

On the 1st day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;a spanking over his knee.
On the 2nd day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 3rd day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 4th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 5th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 6th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 7th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 8th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 9th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 10th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;ten fingers fingering,nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 11th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me;eleven hummers humming,ten fingers fingering,nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.
On the 12th day of Sexmas,my lover gave to me,twelve orgasms throbbing,eleven hummers humming,ten fingers fingering,nine baths a-bubbling,eight texts a-teasing,seven sessions shopping,six nights out-dining,Five Types-of Vibes,four french kisses,three foot rubs,two tickle fights,and a spanking over his knee.





by Mary Fetsch

The Ultimate Sex Position

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Use of Kamasutra to Improve Your Sex Life

Whether it's a mind-blowing, bed-rattling orgasm you're after or a supersensory, soulful lovemaking session, our collection of steamy illustrations and step-by-step instructions has been tweaked and tailored by sex experts to help you reach your peak every single time. Climb on top of your mate and take control with these sizzling strategies and sex positions.

This week we will be discussing and showing positions that give men deep penetration and maximum pleasure. I have also will be giving help and advice to our employees and using some of the points on her website sexinfo101.com in doing this.

Let's begin on talking about how men can obtain deeper penetration. Deep penetration can be very passionate and exciting for both men and women as it can provide entirely new sensations and higher levels of pleasure. As well as being very satisfying and rewarding, it can also provide a sense of being deeply connected with each other, both physically and emotionally.

Men have a natural urge to thrust as deeply as possible into the vagina when they ejaculate and many regard this as the best part of intercourse. Although most women prefer a more shallow penetration, many will allow their man to penetrate them deeply when they are exceptionally aroused, even if it hurts for a few seconds.

But for those who want to experiment, there are certain sexual positions that allow men to penetrate the vagina as deeply as possible and even stimulate the cervix. Women vary in how much they are aroused by cervical stimulation, but some find it very exciting and pleasurable.

Deep penetration can also be enjoyable for women who have a sensitive G Spot as it will help to stimulate the area and make it easier to reach orgasm. To do this, its best to use deep thrusting rear entry sexual positions that allow the penis to vigorously stimulate the G Spot.

Its a good idea to play around with different sexual positions until you find the best angle that suits your mood and provides maximum pleasure. By making small adjustments to the angle of penetration its possible to change the sensation entirely, which is why its important to keep experimenting.

Spoons

This position is the most comfortable to use for deep penetration and it gives the man easy access to be able to enter the woman from behind. As well as being able to slowly and rhythmically penetrate her deeply, the man can also use his hand to touch and caress the woman's breasts and clitoris for added stimulation.

Spread Eagle

This position can be used to stimulate the G Spot while thrusting deeply into the vagina. While the woman lies face down and spreads her legs, the man can enter her from behind. For deeper penetration, a pillow can be placed under the woman's hips to slightly raise her bottom off the bed.

Deep Missionary

This position is a variation of the missionary position where the woman needs to raise her legs and rest her calves on the man's shoulders. The further the woman raises her legs, the deeper the man will be able to penetrate her. The man can also lean forward and push her legs down for the deepest possible penetration.

Furniture

This position requires a sturdy piece of furniture such as a table or bed so that the woman can sit or lay on it near the edge and be level with the man's waist when he is standing or kneeling. While holding the woman's legs apart, the man can vigorously thrust in and out for deeper penetration.

Not all women will enjoy deep penetration, but those that do will find it most enjoyable when they are fully aroused and lubricated so its essential to use lots of foreplay and other sexual positions first. This will reduce the risk of any pain and friction that some women may feel during deep penetration.

by Mary Fetsch of Trimet