Crazy-Hot Sex Moves with these scorching bedroom tricks

You may have to put the fire department on speed dial.

By Mary Fetsch

Pop quiz: When is your body best primed to get busy? If you’re thinking Um, right now? you’re our kind of girl... and you’re totally correct.

So why not make the most of that healthy lust? We checked in with top experts to get the best booty tricks you may not have tried yet. Work your way down the list in succession or mix and match moves custom-made for his package. Either way, let the games begin.

1. Have a naughty-movie marathon. Rent a bunch of flicks with famously steamy sex scenes. How could you not get inspired?

2. Intensify his orgasm by placing two fingers an inch behind his balls and feeling for a dent (the perineum, a big pleasure trigger). For the last 30 seconds before he comes, massage the spot in a circular motion.

3. Tie two or three knots in a nylon stocking, and gently wrap it (don’t tie it) around the base of his penis so it’s snug but still has some give. The compression makes him even more sensitive, and the knots stimulate your clitoris as you move in girl-on-top.

4. Put a small mirror out to the side, parallel to his body, while you’re going down on him — he’ll have an eye-popping view.

5. To make his orgasm explosive, gently squeeze the base of his penis for five seconds before he comes, then release.

6. Close your eyes and masturbate in front of him. It’s a turn-on because he’ll feel like the only viewer of a private porn show.

7. Text your man racy one-word messages that, when strung together, hint at what you want him to do to you that night.

8. Make a playlist of sultry songs, and set it to shuffle during sex. Change up your pace and mood to match each new tune.

9. Buy a small, bullet-shaped vibrator that has a remote operation. Hold it over your clitoris, and hand him the controls.

10. While your man is hard, use one hand to push his penis up toward his stomach. Lick the underside of his shaft by keeping your tongue flat and moving your head from side to side to cover more surface area.

11. While he’s giving you oral sex, tell him to insert a finger in your vagina and stroke your G-spot with a come-hither motion.

Kinky Sex Positions

By Mary Fetsch

So what exactly constitutes a label in the category of kinky sex positions? Are they really different sex positions? Well that really depends on the person engaging in the position.

A shy, inhibited person may feel that doggy style is pretty kinky where as a more uninhibited outgoing person would find that pretty tame and needs something like being outside hanging upside down on the swing set to satisfy their kink.

Definition of Kinky Sex Positions
First of all let's establish the definition of kinky first. Kinky does not mean demeaning, degrading, sinful, shameful or any of those negative things you may have been conditioned to think.

Being kinky is about tapping into your wild, animalistic side. Kinky sex positions are those that make you feel, alive, wild, uninhibited, free, and naughty.

Kinky in the dictionary is described as "unconventional sexual preferences or behavior." But what is considered "conventional" is relative to many factors.

For one person "what is conventional" could mean anything outside the standard missionary position. While another persons "conventional" may include daily use of a love swing. It's really dependent upon how adventurous you've been, how many sexual experiences you've had, how you've been socialized and to what extent you've internalized that socialization.

What's Really Kinky
With that being said, that means we can't really make a list of positions that would be considered kinky sex positions by everyone visiting this page. Some people may scoff at my suggestions, while others may blush and giggle.

However, I will share with you that in my opinion the three best positions for connecting us with the raw and carnal side are the cowgirl, doggy style, and reverse cowgirl. Alternating or swiveling back and forth between cowgirl and reverse cowgirl adds a little more flavor.

Now if you're one of those adventurous people who's already tried every different sex position in the Kama Sutra, you won't be finding anything new here. There's only so many positions possible. However, there are still ways to explore and expand your kink.

One of the best ways to find new, exciting and kinky sex positions is with a piece of sex furniture like the liberator wedge or the love swing. The sky is the limit on kink with these.

Another trick for coming up with kinky sex positions is altering where you do it. You can take any traditional position and turn it into the exceptional by simply changing the location where you make love.

Making love outside is a great way to make any position wilder and more exciting. The standard missionary every night in your bed can become pretty boring, but put your naked bodies on the sand in the moonlight and it becomes a whole new adventure. Doggy style on the living room floor can grow pretty old, but bend her over the hood of the car or the porch railing and you'll experience a variety of exhilarating sensations and heightened pleasure.

Try it on the porch, on the swing set outside, on a picnic table, in the closet, in the bathtub, on the office desk, in the car or on the hood of the car.

Add something new to the position such as grabbing her hair or smacking her buttocks if she's not offended or turned off by these kinds of things and you have a couple different sex positions.

Keep Perspective
Don't get caught up in trying to impress one another or feel pressured to keep with the Porn stars by trying every position under the sun. You don't need to be a sexual athlete or acrobat to experience the most pleasure.

Be sure to take your time with your lover if you haven't ventured into anything beyond the traditional missionary position. They may be turned off or frightened if you spring something shocking on them unexpectedly. Always make it a joint venture and keep communication lines open at all times.

Keep in mind that the purpose of lovemaking is for you and your partner to experience the greatest amount of pleasure possible and connect more deeply. Kinky sex positions that are too difficult to achieve or uncomfortable won't lead to satisfying lovemaking adventures.

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